Make sure you have spent reasonable time planning the date to include considering both of your likes and dislikes.  Depending on some of the venues and ideas below, it is always a good idea to let your date know generally what you have planned so that he/she can dress appropriately for the date.

Here are some ideas to make your date memorable and a few tips about what to avoid:

1. Park, lake, museum, city plaza

Keep the date moving with some physical activity.  Keep it reasonable since most people would not want to get super sweaty on the first date.  Perhaps a walk somewhere that can give you time to talk and take in some sights.  You could go to a park, lake, museum, city plaza, etc.  It will give you a chance to get to know one another casually without direct pressure to share more personal stuff that is better for the second and third date.

2. Sporting event...maybe

Don't do anything that would distract you from getting to know each other since that is the primary objective on a first date.  So, if you don't think you would be able to ignore the hockey game while your date is talking about something, then scoring two tickets for the first date is probably not a good idea.  The only exception is if your date is a die-hard fan of whatever sporting event you plan to attend.  In this case, you will probably both be distracted, but the experience will still be a good one. 

3. Something you both will like

Before your first date, it would be a good idea to get to know your date.  Ask what she likes and doesn't like.  It's also important to show some thoughtful planning on the basis of these interests by making the date unique.  So, for instance, if your date is interested in Thai food you may peak her interest in a similar but different cuisine that you have tried and liked.  If she likes it, you will likely get to a second date.  It shows you have similar interests but that you can bring more than a mirror of her interests on your date.  Basically, it means you’re thoughtful and have a brain.

4. Local sightseeing and hotspots

Local sights are a great place to take a first date.  Botanical Garden, Science Center, Planetarium, Astronomy Center, City Zoo are all great places to start.  You could finish or start the date with lunch or dinner.  Make sure the weather is permitting if any venues are outside.  Always have a back-up plan for unexpected bad weather.

5. Multiple stops

Progressive dates are fun adventurous dates that are similar to a progressive dinner in that you do several short stops to keep the "heart beating" all night!  You could start at a bookstore to look for a book on something your date and you both have interest.  Be sincere about it though.  You should really have an interest in purchasing a book or your date will see right through you.  Keep the dating going with a meal at a local restaurant.  The meal doesn't need to be expensive, but a local fast food joint isn't quite right.  Afterward, based on each other's interests: a museum, pottery shop or even rock climbing deliver fun and interactive activities that keep you talking.  Remember not to be regimented and don't cut things short somewhere to get to the next stop on time.  If you and your date start hitting it off and you skip some places you originally planned to go on the date, that’s okay too.  If you plan to start the date in the evening, consider the 2019 DMK article, Nightlife Anyone? for popular venue ideas.

6. Street festival or fair

If the evening or day is pleasant, take your date to a local fair or festival.  It's an excellent environment filled with lots of food & talking points.  To make a good impression, do your homework before the date regarding parking, live music and food.  It will make your date feel like you are interested in making a good first impression and were thoughtful in planning your date.

7. Farmers market

A farmers market or flee market are both fun venues for an informal first date.  Based on your date's interests, it may be a way to get to know him/her without necessarily calling it a date.  It's a great mutual interest venue that has plenty of shopping, whether it be fresh foods or antiques it gives you an ideal platform for lifestyle discussions.

8. Roller skating 

If your date is fun spirited you may start off with roller skating.  It gives you both the opportunity to be silly and fun without significant talking.  You can both help each other skate if it's been awhile, so don't show-off, this is a great time to stay close and be considerate.  Dinner or lunch afterward will be a great time to have a more direct conversation with each other. 

9. Live music on the patio 

Live music can be loud and make it difficult to really get to know your date.  It would be better for subsequent dates.  However, Jazz and solo guitarists in local pubs and outdoor patios at local bars and restaurants can be a warm, romantic option that won't be too loud so you will still be able to have good conversation.

10. Cooking class 

Cooking classes are fun first dates where you both get to make a mutual meal together.  It will give you a chance to see how well you work with another and really get a feel for the other's personality.  Before planning this class you should know what you will be making and insure your date does not have a dispassion for cooking in general, for which this would be a disaster for a first date.       OurDMK.com

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