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re • birth n.  "Another birth; renewed existence or revival; a person's choice to live a new life following a spiritual enlightenment; change in one's beliefs; resurgence".  

Divorce has a really bad habit of bringing up the past, encouraging it's participants to lose sight of their well-being and keeping them in a purgatory without peace, sex or dating until the divorce is complete.  Sheesh!  So, when the divorce is behind you, it's time to get a better life in front of you.  

Divorce is a difficult journey many of us enter into before fully knowing how much we'll actually go through.  Perhaps for good reason, we take the opportunity to get out of a bad relationship as our best escape from the depths of a failing marriage, only to realize later that things get much more difficult before they get better.  

There are some things to look forward to once your divorce is final and if you're like most of us, being alone isn't one of them. 

After a divorce, financial setbacks are extremely common.  These setbacks make it difficult to keep up with your expenses, maintain your current lifestyle and continue to save for the future.   The mental exhaustion from money issues can cause problems for your job, family and health.