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DIVORCE FACT The average marriage in the United States lasts 8.2 years. Couples in Italy more than double the United States marriage longevity with their marriages lasting on average over 18 years.

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Top things people consider when shopping for an attorney

Choosing an attorney to represent you in a divorce is a very important decision. It helps to know what people consider about an attorney before they hire someone to represent them. Based on a survey done by ILawyerMarketing.com "New Study: How people Hire Lawyers in 2017", the average legal consumer has many considerations. They range from experience and legal fees to pictures of the attorney and his/her social media activity. Check out the entire list from the survey below.

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Before you meet with a lawyer

For a divorce:

It's best to not meet with an attorney based on an emotional reaction. It should be after you've had time to settle down after bad news, an argument or disagreement. It's important to realize that while you take the road to divorce as a response to your marriage's end, the road itself is usually going to make your life harder before it get's better. Divorce is a journey that should not be based on a reaction, rather on an on-going problem, significant change or event that has already destroyed the marriage that now needs to be legally dissolved.

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Interviewing a potential attorney

It's time to consult an attorney to get a broader legal view of your pending divorce. You will look for an attorney to have the background, rate and "court side manner" that provides you the best representation. Your goal is to dissolve your marriage with the least amount of time, problems and legal fees. There is no way to sugar coat a divorce intertwined with emotional drama and pain. So, from this point on, know that your attorney is your attorney and not your therapist. It's time to toughen up and speak law, or at least understand it so that you can get the best settlement possible.

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What to expect once you hire your divorce attorney?

By now you have spoken with one or more attorneys regarding divorce. It's time to hire the attorney that you have determined is best to handle your case. Upon hiring your attorney you will likely do the following:

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Making a personal connection with your attorney is very helpful in order to reduce potential problems and personality conflicts throughout your divorce case. It's better for for overall effective communication. It makes it easier to discuss your expectations for a potential outcome. An attorney with strong personal skills provides more efficient explanation and a clearer legal picture of your case based on state laws and individual circumstances.

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Most people find their attorney's on-line

Based on a professional survey of 1000 American consumers on the methods of searching for legal representation, the internet was the primary source to research and hire attorneys.

Accessed 3/2019 from 4/17/2014 FindLaw Survey, www.thomsonreuters.com

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Divorce and Tax Tips

1. According to the new law TCJA (Tax Cuts and Jobs Acts), you may no longer deduct alimony payments as established in divorce or separation agreements as executed or modified after Dec 31, 2018. Consequently, recipients of alimony established in these agreements will not need to report alimony as taxable income.

2. If your spouse is uncooperative in regard to filing your current tax return; you should file separately despite a pending divorce.

3. You can amend two separate returns later, but you can not amend the joint return to two single returns.

4. To file jointly you must be married up to and including the last day of the year even when living apart. The last day of the tax year is December 31.

5. You can file under the single filing status if you are legally separated, single or your marriage has been annulled by December 31 and be eligible for head of household status

6. Signing a joint tax return holds you and your spouse jointly and severally liable for any taxes due on that return. This includes tax not correctly reported and found later by way of audit and/or assessment.

7. If you receive a tax refund on a joint return, the money will probably be considered marital property and be divided according to the division of property.

8. Your children must live with you at least half the year in order for you to claim head of household status on your tax return.

9. If you are married and in the process of divorcing, you can file under married filing separately or married filing jointly. You may not file as single.

10. Legal fees from a divorce are usually not deductible. However, you may deduct legal fees that were paid to establish or collect alimony.

Legal Process Facts

1. Debts incurred during a marriage are usually considered marital debts.

2. Responsibility for marital debts is allocated according to the property division laws of the state.

3. If you earn a higher income and/or have lower living expenses the court may consider you to assume a higher portion of the marital debt.

4. Interrogatories are written questions the spouse must answer in writing, under oath.

5. Depositions are when a spouse or party must answer questions under oath before a court reporter.

6. Many times depositions are requested when there are suspected hidden assets.

7. When one spouse’s legal team requests the other spouse to produce documents like bank statements, tax returns, financial documents or otherwise it is known as a request or notice for the production of documents.

8. Subpoena orders a witness to appear before a court or at a deposition.

9. Requests for inspection is when a spouse is in possession of some asset or financial documentation relevant to the settlement and the other spouse has reason to review or otherwise inspect or have access to them.

10. Hiding assets can have criminal and civil consequences.