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Your co-worker approaches and says she will not be able to give a presentation this afternoon due to a family emergency. She asks you to present your team’s proposal instead.  You reluctantly accept the task.  With a quick roll of the eyes she drops the proposal on your desk and charges off.

Despite being the senior executive on the team and perhaps the most qualified, you never give the presentations.  Perhaps this is the reason why you have yet to be offered a management position.  You've been with the same company with little advancement over the past several years.

You go over the proposal, but the more you think about it, the more you envision making a mistake.  The worst scenarios come-up in your head which make you feel like you are unprepared.  Feeling unprepared makes you think through the proposal again and again and forever and again.  You can see how ridiculous it is, but can't help but feel unprepared.  

Your day starts to tailspin out of control in this vicious cycle.  You know it’s unreasonable, but, you start to feel resentful towards your co-worker for dropping this on you.  Your heart is racing, your face is flush and the presentation is hours away.  

Could you have a disorder?

Sound familiar?  You’re not alone.  Social Anxiety Disorder, also known as SAD, is the second most common anxiety disorder in the United States, second only to phobia related disorders.  It includes many of the symptoms noted above, as well as, increased perspiration, nausea, inability to speak clearly, trembling and fidgeting.  People who suffer from this disorder fear being considered uninteresting, awkward or foolish. 

More than 15 million American Adults are diagnosed with this, yet, less than 5% with this disorder seek treatment within the first year following the initial onset. Moreover, most don’t seek a diagnosis for more than 10 years after the symptoms begin.  Most symptoms begin in the late teen years, but can also develop later in life.

Often the stigma of being diagnosed with a mental disorder prevents people from sharing their symptoms with their doctors.  But, mental disorders such as anxiety and depression are fairly common.  According to NIMH, National Institute of Mental Health, as of 2017, over 46 million Americans have some form of mental illness. 

Another reason for delayed diagnosis may be that friends, co workers and family members misunderstand the severity of the disorder.  Many may expect you to “ just get over it”.  Which may not possible without some form of professional intervention. 

Unfortunately, some individuals get much worse before they get better and try to self medicate.  Consequently, this disorder increases the risk for addiction, alcohol abuse and/ or major depressive disorder.  

How to cope

The most effective means of coping with this disorder is to first seek a diagnosis and treatment plan.  While the treatment plan for the disorder may include a counselor or psychologist, the diagnosis and any necessary prescriptions can only be given by a medical doctor.  This includes a Psychiatrist, family physician or other specialist.  Upon visiting your doctor, prepare a written list of questions, concerns and symptoms.  

Suffering from an anxiety disorder makes it difficult to focus when confronted by a health care professional.  It’s good to have something you can refer to during the appointment.  

Prescriptions

Prescriptions vary and have side effects.  They may interact poorly with other drugs or conditions.  Be sure to discuss the benefits and drawbacks of adding a prescription to your treatment plan.  A medication may be extremely beneficial, but it should not be considered the only option to treat your anxiety disorder.

A counselor, therapist or psychologist is very helpful in treating this disorder.  However, it’s important to locate a professional who has experience with Social Anxiety Disorder and situations like yours.  Be patient with the therapy, especially if you have had the undiagnosed problem for many years.  It will take some time to develop the ability to feel comfortable in social situations.


References:  12/02/2018 - Anxiety and Depression Association of America, Social Anxiety Disorder, 12/03/2018 - Mayo Clinic

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