"Where were you born? Where is your home? Where are you going? What are you doing?  Think about these once in awhile and watch your answers change."  -Richard Bach

When obtaining information regarding divorce, know that the legal options and laws  vary by state.  While it's best to consult an attorney, there are sites, like DMK, that provide general information related to divorce to better prepare you when you do. 

"If only I had known then what I know now, perhaps I would have made less mistakes."

The saying "hindsight is 20/20" should be the motto for divorce.  We can always look back and find errors.  Often, our emotions are such a large part of the process that once those dissipate, even slightly, we start to see things differently.