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DIVORCE FACT Approximately 5% of divorce cases go to trial. This means that 95% of cases are settled with both spouses cooperating with each other, individual or mutual attorneys, mediators or other methods.

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Is there a way to change my Divorce Decree?

Modification

In some cases, a modification can be requested based on one or more consistent, material changes in circumstances and/or the best interest of the child(ren) (e.g., job loss or transfer, chronic illness, changes in financial situation, etc.)

In most states, to initiate the process, a motion to modify would be filed in the same court that issued the Final Judgement of Divorce (Divorce Decree).

There are state specific guidelines as to what qualifies for a possible modification and what terms of the judgement may be modified. If both parties are in agreement and the court feels sufficient time has passed since the original order was established, the modification is relatively straight-forward. A judge must still approve the request for modification. If both parties are not in agreement, the case is more complicated costly and time consuming.

Modifications are usually for spousal or child support, custody/visitation. Most often, the courts will not modify the terms of the decree regarding marital property division. In some states, exceptions may be possible (e.g., both parties are in agreement to modify those terms, the decree includes the possibility of modification of those terms) but a judge must still approve the request.

A request may not be approved if it has been filed too soon after the date of the original order and/or the terms were established in a settlement agreement rather than by a judge.

The law is complicated

As always, state laws vary as do individual cases; consult a local attorney for details and/or the local courts for filing instructions.

Appeal

An appeal is specific to wrongdoing rather than changes in current circumstances.

One should consult with a local attorney for clarification of permissible grounds in his/her state and further understanding of the laws as they pertain to his/her reason(s) to overturn the court order (e.g., the court made an error when applying the law to the case or there's new evidence).

In most states there is a limited time period (anywhere between 30-90 days - state specific) to appeal. It’s uncommon to win an appeal of a divorce judgement that’s been fully executed by both spouses and approved by the court. This is especially true if the terms were established in a settlement agreement between both spouses.

How does adultery affect my settlement?

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Adultery may make a difference in your divorce regarding your financial settlement/judgement, to include support and the distribution of marital debts and assets.

Laws vary in each state, so it's important to speak with a local attorney to get legal advice based on your state's regulations and statutes.

What is a divorce settlement?

A divorce settlement details the final legal terms of the divorce negotiated between a husband and a wife, sometimes with the help of a mediator, attorney(s) or other pertinent professionals.

Upon signing the divorce settlement and upon acceptance by the court it's incorporated into a document, often referred to as a Divorce Decree. It's the formal, legal dissolution of a marriage.

It's exceedingly difficult to appeal the final judgement, especially if it was reached through a settlement agreement. A modification of the final judgement may be possible if specific changes (e.g., illness, job loss, moving, etc.) occur following the divorce. Most typically, a modification is only allowed for maintenance (alimony), child support and/or custody.

Common ways to reach a settlement

If you and your spouse have not already decided on the settlement details, unless legally advised otherwise, you can negotiate all terms of the settlement yourselves and have your attorney(s) complete the legal paperwork and filing. This can save a great deal of time, frustration, and money. Otherwise, you can each hire attorneys to represent you in the negotiations and/or hire a mediator or arbitrator. The court must approve the settlement before it becomes the Final Judgement of Divorce.

If there's still a breakdown in negotiations, then a court battle is the next and final means. The judge will make decisions related to specific issues the couple cannot agree upon or decide all the terms of the divorce. The cost is usually much higher, both emotionally and financially, when the divorce goes to trial. In many cases, the judge will order the couple to participate in mediation prior to the trial.

How does adultery affect the settlement/judgement?

Often, the effect of adultery on a settlement is technically minimal since the terms are being established by both spouses. However, it's likely to cause the spouse who was cheated on to be less "giving" on the terms of the settlement which could delay the couple from reaching a settlement and/or cause the case to go to court. If it does, then the state laws will be applied, which may make adultery more relevant in the overall judgement. Adultery generally does not affect child custody.

Keeping in mind that each state's laws vary (e.g., some states are no-fault states), the information below provides the basics regarding the effect on the Final Judgement of Divorce when adultery has occurred and/or is part of the petition. Only a licensed attorney can give you specifics as they are relevant to your case and state statutes.

Adultery Fast Facts

Infidelity may be considered in financial settlements, asset allocation, child custody and spousal support.

The injured party may make negotiating much harder on the spouse who committed adultery. This may make reaching a settlement cost more, take longer and/or require litigation.
Adultery is generally less of a consideration (when decided by a judge) in deciding support and the distribution of assets than are the financial considerations of each spouse. But some states require the judge to consider each spouse's behavior, among other aspects of the case, during the marriage when considering his/her judgement, specifically regarding the allocation of debts and assets (even in no-fault divorces). However, most no-fault states may still consider adultery, if applicable, in determining if alimony should be awarded and its amount.
The financial impact is often nominal on the judgement, and many consider it to be counterproductive when considering the extra time and money to add adultery as grounds for the divorce, if contested. Most times it will only be considered in the division of assets, rather than a larger financial award/support.
If your state is a no-fault state or you have elected a no-fault divorce within your state, then the "injured party" does not need to prove adultery for the divorce to be granted by the court. But it may still be considered as part of settlement talks and/or if the case goes before a judge or commissioner to decide some or all terms of the divorce.
If the case goes to court, the judge will divide property and assets fairly and, in many cases, equally (heavily dependent on if the case is in a community property state or equitable distribution state). However, if a spouse has compromised the couple's assets, such as a joint bank account through the adultery, such as using the couple's assets to make purchases for a girlfriend or boyfriend of the cheating spouse, then those funds could be considered in negotiating a settlement or when decided by a judge, with a greater amount awarded to the "injured party" for reimbursement.
Adultery does not need to be the grounds for divorce for it to influence the judgement.
Many times, the effect of adultery is based on the judge's subjective opinion and more favorable, overall award to the plaintiff or "injured party", rather than a specific amount noted in the terms of the divorce based on infidelity. The risk of going to trial with one spouse's threat of using the adultery against the other to gain a better judgement may have a significant impact on many adulterous spouse's choice to settle during negotiations, including mediation.
In most cases a wife's spousal support or child support won't be affected or reduced if she was unfaithful.
Adultery is rarely considered in child custody cases.
An adulterous spouse can still get custody of a child if he/she shows herself to be a satisfactory guardian for the child.
A court can consider failing to grant custody of a child to a parent if the court feels the parent has been neglectful of a child due to adultery.

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Divorce and Tax Tips

1. According to the congressional revenue act, TCJA (Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017), signed into law by former President Donald Trump, you may no longer deduct alimony payments as established in divorce or separation agreements, executed or modified after Dec 31, 2018. Consequently, recipients of alimony established in these agreements will not need to report alimony as taxable income.

2. If your spouse is uncooperative in regard to filing your current tax return, in most cases you should file separately despite a pending divorce.

3. You can amend two separate returns later, but you can not amend the joint return to two single returns.

4. To file jointly you must be married up to and including the last day of the year even when living apart. The last day of the tax year is December 31.

5. You can file under the single filing status if you are legally separated, single or your marriage has been annulled by December 31 and be eligible for head of household status

6. Signing a joint tax return holds you and your spouse jointly and severally liable for any taxes due on that return. This includes tax not correctly reported and found later by way of audit and/or assessment.

7. If you receive a tax refund on a joint return, the money could be considered marital property and be divided according to the division of property.

8. Your children must live with you at least half the year in order for you to claim head of household status on your tax return.

9. Only one parent is allowed to claim the child tax credit. IRS tax rules determine which parent will be the one qualified to do so, but often it is the one with the majority physical custody. In some cases, you and your spouse can negotiate to share the credit by alternating years or by selecting different credits for each dependent.

10. If you are married and in the process of divorcing, you can file under married filing separately or married filing jointly. You may not file as single.

11. Legal fees from a divorce are usually not deductible. However, you may deduct legal fees that were paid to establish or collect alimony.

12. If you change your name when divorcing, remember to contact the Social Security Administration and get a corrected card. Otherwise, your next tax return will probably be rejected and, if applicable, your tax return delayed if your name on your tax forms isn't the same as the name on your social security card.

13. According to the IRS, if you have a capital gain from the sale of your primary residence, you may qualify for a deduction of $250,000 if your filing status is single or up to $500,000 if you file a joint return with your spouse. More information can be found in Topic No. 701 Sale of Your Home on www.irs.gov.