Love is fun, sexy & wild!  We all love to fall in love.  It encourages us, improves our self-esteem, and makes every single thing in our life better.  Rarely do we take our love blinders off long enough to think, "what if". 

Accepting your divorce, the settlement and your new life 

It's common for one spouse to rebound quicker with significantly less emotional tie-downs following divorce.  Often this may be the spouse who was awarded a better settlement/judgement and/or was the one who initiated the divorce.