When "life" happens, as in a life changing event such as divorce, we react.  Like dodge ball, we do all types of strange moves to avoid the moving object from connecting.

The divorce is finally complete.  You're fully entrenched in your new single lifestyle and totally ready to move forward.  You're ready to shed a few pounds, clean out the closets and dig into your career or education.  Right? 

Well, maybe not so much.

Many divorce articles and books are going to tell you much of the same thing.  Problems lead to divorce, divorce to emotional distress, then acknowledgment and healing.  Divorce resources help, but after awhile it may just be time for chocolate, wine and sad movie marathons.  Right? 

Um. Maybe.undecided