When "life" happens, as in a life changing event such as divorce, we react.  Like dodge ball, we do all types of strange moves to avoid the moving object from connecting.

The divorce is finally complete.  You're fully entrenched in your new single lifestyle and totally ready to move forward.  You're ready to shed a few pounds, clean out the closets and dig into your career or education.  Right? 

Well, maybe not so much.

Many books and online articles tell us much of the same thing.  While resources like DMK help us identify our problems and stages of divorce in an effort to better cope with the immense changes before us, after awhile we may just need chocolate, wine and sad movie marathons.  Right? 

Um. Maybe.undecided