Many books and online articles tell us much of the same thing about getting over a divorce.  They help us identify our problems and stages of divorce in an effort to better cope with the immense changes before us.  But, after a while we may just need chocolate, wine and sad movie marathons.  Right? 

Um. Maybe.undecided

You can't look to the future until you let go of the past.  It may seem like harmless "flings" with your ex, but if the relationship isn't moving toward reconciliation, then it's binding you to failed love.

Divorce among aging adults is becoming more common.  An article in US News & World Report, Gray Divorce: The Financial Challenges & Opportunitiesreports the divorce rate to be twice the amount in 2015 compared to 1990, for adults 50 and older [Pew Research Center].