Wanna feel worse?  Look at old pictures of your happy family or your wedding album.  Watch a romantic movie and listen to sad love songs.  

Why do many of us gravitate towards our past and things we lack during times of grief, such as divorce?

Love is fun, sexy & wild!  We all love to fall in love.  It encourages us, improves our self-esteem and makes every single thing in our life better.  Rarely do we take our love blinders off long enough to think, "what if".