Dating after divorce isn't easy.  It's especially difficult when you're considering the feelings of your entire family.  Your children have gone through this divorce with you.  The idea of a new relationship between a parent and another person can be threatening to them. 

Your divorce is final.  The kids are with your ex and you just bought a membership to an online dating site.  You run your first search and suddenly you're overwhelmed by the possibilities.  You write and re-write your profile, but somehow it still doesn't seem just right.