What I realized a few weeks into separating

Arguments, heart break and marriage problems can distort your perspective and make your decision making skills equivalent to a love sick teenager. One of the most challenging things I realized days after my separation was that I wasn't over my wife or my marriage.

What I Did Wrong During My Divorce

The saying "hindsight is 20/20" should be the motto for divorce. We can always look back and find errors. Often, our emotions are such a large part of the process that once those dissipate, even slightly, we start to see things differently. If only I had known then what I know now, perhaps I would have made less mistakes.

Two Funerals, Three Accidents and a Wedding

I met my husband, Paul in college. We were never really close then. In fact, we only knew of each other in some mutual classes. I never even knew he noticed me. We went on with our lives. He continued on to graduate school and I married someone I met a few years later. He, too eventually married and had a son.